romanticize your life

     Don't fall into the trap of thinking everything you are, own and live is not worth of love. 

    If I could give you one piece of advice, it would be to romanticize your life. No matter how does it work, how does it look, how does it goes by. Try your best to romanticize every little thing you have. It might be a ritual you have, like a your evening routine, maybe it is your morning workout. Regardless of your financial situation, your studies, your routine, your calendar. 

    Why? Maybe you are in a similar situation to what I have lived. Maybe you are thinking that because what you have, how you look, what you do is a little bit different to other people and that's why you might not deem it worth of any praise or value. I used to think like that. I used to think that if my stories were not color coded, the fonts were not professionally matched, or if the photos were not from an iphone it wasn't worth posting. It wasn't worth sharing. It wasn't worth talking about. 

    That's just a big lie. I lied to myself for so long. I used to think I was worthless sometimes. I certainly don't have what influencers have, I don't earn what my most sucessful friends earn, I don't travel as much as my colleagues. And so what? Just because I don't have access to more money, more studies, more stuff, more knowledge doesn't make me insignficant. For so long I valued all this things, things I don't have in live, and it would always make me look like I wasn't desiring of value.

    Ambition is something we all have, some more, some less. We all need some ambition. To be healthier, to have a different career, to have a certain family holiday. Whatever our ambitions are, whatever we wish for and work for in life, whatever we value, whatever we admire, this has nothing to do with our own value. We are precious just by existing. 

    Our lives are worth of praise, of honour, of value. It doesn't matter if it is different to everyone else's lives. Our precious little life are just ours. Use it wisely. Don't go about thinking you are not worth of value. Stop comparing yourself and remember that everyone is worth of value. 

    Appreciate your things. Appreciate your place, your partner, your family, the neighborhood that you live in, the people that you work with. Learn to treasure the smallest things in live. Treasure your morning coffee, the shower after a long day, the book that you are reading. Cherish the moments you live. Your live is only experienced by you. There is no one else living your live the way you are. Cherish every single opportunity to feel alive. 

    Have a great day and an amazing life :)